ItsMeForRealNowM · 5 days agoAll feelings matter. They tell us something. Observe and take time to acknowledge, process and respond to the feeling in a way that doesn't cause harm to anyone. message-squaremessage-square1linkfedilinkarrow-up18arrow-down11
arrow-up17arrow-down1message-squareAll feelings matter. They tell us something. Observe and take time to acknowledge, process and respond to the feeling in a way that doesn't cause harm to anyone. ItsMeForRealNowM · 5 days agomessage-square1linkfedilink
ItsMeForRealNowM · 1 year agoIf they talk to you about someone else badly, they can do the same about you with someone else.message-squaremessage-square0linkfedilinkarrow-up15arrow-down13
arrow-up12arrow-down1message-squareIf they talk to you about someone else badly, they can do the same about you with someone else.ItsMeForRealNowM · 1 year agomessage-square0linkfedilink
ItsMeForRealNowM · edit-21 year agoThe school system and society promote exercise rarely. Work out. Lift weights. Do cardio. Stretch. This is 60% for the mind and 40% for the body. You'll love it. I promise.message-squaremessage-square1linkfedilinkarrow-up114arrow-down14
arrow-up110arrow-down1message-squareThe school system and society promote exercise rarely. Work out. Lift weights. Do cardio. Stretch. This is 60% for the mind and 40% for the body. You'll love it. I promise.ItsMeForRealNowM · edit-21 year agomessage-square1linkfedilink
ItsMeForRealNowM · 2 years agoWhen online on shady websites, hide IP, don't use real name, don't use real details, don't ever click on links directly, even if you fully trust them. Internet never forgets and can get slippery fast.message-squaremessage-square0linkfedilinkarrow-up13arrow-down18
arrow-up1-5arrow-down1message-squareWhen online on shady websites, hide IP, don't use real name, don't use real details, don't ever click on links directly, even if you fully trust them. Internet never forgets and can get slippery fast.ItsMeForRealNowM · 2 years agomessage-square0linkfedilink
ItsMeForRealNowM · 2 years agoWhen becoming sexually active when young - your first can form your kinks and expectations. I had those problems. It's best with some1 respects your privacy, self, and worth.message-squaremessage-square1linkfedilinkarrow-up12arrow-down19
arrow-up1-7arrow-down1message-squareWhen becoming sexually active when young - your first can form your kinks and expectations. I had those problems. It's best with some1 respects your privacy, self, and worth.ItsMeForRealNowM · 2 years agomessage-square1linkfedilink
ItsMeForRealNowM · 2 years agoSometimes what money can't buy can actually be very valuable yet free. Dont take it for granted.message-squaremessage-square0linkfedilinkarrow-up13arrow-down16
arrow-up1-3arrow-down1message-squareSometimes what money can't buy can actually be very valuable yet free. Dont take it for granted.ItsMeForRealNowM · 2 years agomessage-square0linkfedilink
ItsMeForRealNowM · edit-21 year agoIf you live with roommates, and if you ever hear buzzing like a trimmer etc in shower, and when they come out they aren't shaved or trimmed, don't ask/tell them anything about what you heard.message-squaremessage-square5linkfedilinkarrow-up14arrow-down115
arrow-up1-11arrow-down1message-squareIf you live with roommates, and if you ever hear buzzing like a trimmer etc in shower, and when they come out they aren't shaved or trimmed, don't ask/tell them anything about what you heard.ItsMeForRealNowM · edit-21 year agomessage-square5linkfedilink
ItsMeForRealNowM · 2 years agoBeauty is very subjective and depends on context. If you don't see it in something at a given moment, maybe it needs a different context.message-squaremessage-square0linkfedilinkarrow-up14arrow-down12
arrow-up12arrow-down1message-squareBeauty is very subjective and depends on context. If you don't see it in something at a given moment, maybe it needs a different context.ItsMeForRealNowM · 2 years agomessage-square0linkfedilink
ItsMeForRealNowM · 2 years agoIntelligence has many forms. Only some are measured in school. Some out in the world. Some at home. Some by ourselves.message-squaremessage-square0linkfedilinkarrow-up14arrow-down13
arrow-up11arrow-down1message-squareIntelligence has many forms. Only some are measured in school. Some out in the world. Some at home. Some by ourselves.ItsMeForRealNowM · 2 years agomessage-square0linkfedilink
ItsMeForRealNowM · 2 years agoEverybody has a right to win. When you don't, it was just someone else's turn. Learn from them and be happy for them especially if they are a friend. There's plenty of room and time for your turn.message-squaremessage-square2linkfedilinkarrow-up13arrow-down13
arrow-up10arrow-down1message-squareEverybody has a right to win. When you don't, it was just someone else's turn. Learn from them and be happy for them especially if they are a friend. There's plenty of room and time for your turn.ItsMeForRealNowM · 2 years agomessage-square2linkfedilink
ItsMeForRealNowM · 2 years agoI've come to believe that karma is less about positives and negatives and more about the universe forcing us to learn anything we refuse to understandmessage-squaremessage-square0linkfedilinkarrow-up12arrow-down12
arrow-up10arrow-down1message-squareI've come to believe that karma is less about positives and negatives and more about the universe forcing us to learn anything we refuse to understandItsMeForRealNowM · 2 years agomessage-square0linkfedilink
ItsMeForRealNowM · 2 years agotaking care of you when you were a newborn was EXHAUSTING! yet satisfying and lovely. You were wanted way before we knew we were going to have you. We love you so much!message-squaremessage-square0linkfedilinkarrow-up16arrow-down13
arrow-up13arrow-down1message-squaretaking care of you when you were a newborn was EXHAUSTING! yet satisfying and lovely. You were wanted way before we knew we were going to have you. We love you so much!ItsMeForRealNowM · 2 years agomessage-square0linkfedilink
ItsMeForRealNowM · 2 years agoAlways try to understand other's situation. But also make sure youre not putting yourself in danger or suppressing your own emotions for trivial reasons..message-squaremessage-square0linkfedilinkarrow-up15arrow-down10
arrow-up15arrow-down1message-squareAlways try to understand other's situation. But also make sure youre not putting yourself in danger or suppressing your own emotions for trivial reasons..ItsMeForRealNowM · 2 years agomessage-square0linkfedilink
ItsMeForRealNowM · 2 years agoEven if one didn't cause a damage intentionally, they must try to help fix it intentionally. But everyone involved must make sure that the blame is not placed on them wrongfully.message-squaremessage-square0linkfedilinkarrow-up11arrow-down12
arrow-up1-1arrow-down1message-squareEven if one didn't cause a damage intentionally, they must try to help fix it intentionally. But everyone involved must make sure that the blame is not placed on them wrongfully.ItsMeForRealNowM · 2 years agomessage-square0linkfedilink
ItsMeForRealNowM · edit-22 years agospend time with people dven if they seem awkward or rude at first. Even if it doesn't change your opinion, it at least humanizes them to you. we are not experts at judging character in an instant.message-squaremessage-square0linkfedilinkarrow-up11arrow-down14
arrow-up1-3arrow-down1message-squarespend time with people dven if they seem awkward or rude at first. Even if it doesn't change your opinion, it at least humanizes them to you. we are not experts at judging character in an instant.ItsMeForRealNowM · edit-22 years agomessage-square0linkfedilink
ItsMeForRealNowM · edit-22 years agoWhen youre overwhelmed with tasks, scale down. Set aside anything that seems pressuring unless it is medically or legally important. Even things from work or school. Ease yourself, then pick up slow.message-squaremessage-square3linkfedilinkarrow-up13arrow-down12
arrow-up11arrow-down1message-squareWhen youre overwhelmed with tasks, scale down. Set aside anything that seems pressuring unless it is medically or legally important. Even things from work or school. Ease yourself, then pick up slow.ItsMeForRealNowM · edit-22 years agomessage-square3linkfedilink
ItsMeForRealNowM · 2 years agoWhen angry, listen to calmer people. Try to go in the opposite direction of anger. Do not alienate anyone who is trying to deescalate. Opposing views are ok. Goal is to calm down and take action.message-squaremessage-square0linkfedilinkarrow-up121arrow-down11
arrow-up120arrow-down1message-squareWhen angry, listen to calmer people. Try to go in the opposite direction of anger. Do not alienate anyone who is trying to deescalate. Opposing views are ok. Goal is to calm down and take action.ItsMeForRealNowM · 2 years agomessage-square0linkfedilink
ItsMeForRealNowM · 2 years agoGender inequality (bad) has existed for so long that we may not recognize when it is taking place. Be on the lookout for it no matter what gender you end up being, and stand up for what is right.message-squaremessage-square0linkfedilinkarrow-up127arrow-down17
arrow-up120arrow-down1message-squareGender inequality (bad) has existed for so long that we may not recognize when it is taking place. Be on the lookout for it no matter what gender you end up being, and stand up for what is right.ItsMeForRealNowM · 2 years agomessage-square0linkfedilink
ItsMeForRealNowM · 2 years agoFigure out what work is required the most in society and is fairly valued - position yourself to be able to do that work as a fallback job at least.message-squaremessage-square2linkfedilinkarrow-up18arrow-down11
arrow-up17arrow-down1message-squareFigure out what work is required the most in society and is fairly valued - position yourself to be able to do that work as a fallback job at least.ItsMeForRealNowM · 2 years agomessage-square2linkfedilink
ItsMeForRealNowM · 2 years agoLearn how money works in your age. Old advice and wisdom can be outdated but be sure to check on it because some of it is time tested and economic history rhymes in time.message-squaremessage-square0linkfedilinkarrow-up16arrow-down13
arrow-up13arrow-down1message-squareLearn how money works in your age. Old advice and wisdom can be outdated but be sure to check on it because some of it is time tested and economic history rhymes in time.ItsMeForRealNowM · 2 years agomessage-square0linkfedilink
