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All my walls are brick or concrete… If I manage to punch a hole in any of them, I deserve a medal or something.
I broke my fifth metacarpal punching a brick wall.
I was just upset that my family didn’t tell me about my grandpa’s funeral and I missed it. I heard through my cousin asking where I was and I freaked out a few hours later when I was in the computer lab. Yes, I’m not great at handling my feelings and I am a man and it’s still stupid.
Honestly your family not telling you about your grampas funeral seems like a worthy excuse for a complete explosion
Yes but have you tried?
And kept trying for years while you plot your escape/revenge?
I don’t know any women who have punched a hole in drywall. I know several who have made holes in the drywall by throwing things in anger.
Chanclas are deadly
I was talking to a trans friend about this.
Apparently men and women seem to feel emotions at the same rate and level. The difference is that, being female (at least hormonally) massively drops your ability to suppress emotions.
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Both feel equally.
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Women tend to vent little and often. This leads to better emotional management.
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Men can suppress for a long time. However, when they blow, it’s like a pressure cooker exploding. This leads to more emergency venting, and poorer management.
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I did know a woman who got a “boxer’s fracture” from punching a wall. Mostly hit the stud though, so drywall was fine. Her brother stopped after breaking his wrist so I guess it was kind of a family tradition.
Joke’s on you, drywall is so shit now you can just calmly push a finger through it.
I did, once, because the person antagonizing me physically blocked my exit, and I’d rather hurt a wall than a person. But doing it when you can just walk away is…sad. Also, I wouldn’t recommend it, as it hurts like fuck.
you must have hit a stud. you have to hit the hollow space and its just like punching through two sheets of paper with crumbly dirt between them. Most anger control issue people know this either from knowing the construction of a wall or having punched through a wall before or having witnessed it before. It looks scarier than it is and they take advantage of that. Now punch through an exterior door with metal cladding and I’ll be scared…
I wasn’t trying to intimidate anyone. I was trying not to hurt someone. And it worked. Not planning on doing it again.
I wasn’t saying that you were, just that people who are trying to intimidate are not experiencing the pain you did and are deceptively taking the easy route to appearing scary
I never punched but kick a hole in a wall. Fucking neighbors in a duplex we lived in kept rhe stereo right next to our dining room wall. I was pissed kick the wall. Didn’t even mean to create the hole. Luckily I know how to repair it.
I was losing it because the neighbors kept connecting their baby monitor to my ‘smart’ TV’s insecure and non-disableable bluetooth, but my apartment at the time was like full concrete so I wouldn’t punch that even if I was full rage. Sound wasn’t even an issue apart from that but it would force swap inputs when they turned it on. You really have to research and test these damn things… I just want a medium tv sized oled pc monitor now but they are so damn pricy.
They forget anger is an emotion.
I was living in this total fucking slum, basically rebuilt it a thousand times iver from within while i lived there.
But my roommates were all guys. There were so many patched bits of drywall. I got really bored and wanted to feel included.
I didn’t know anger was the only emotion.
Because you’re too emotionally attached to your drywall; you weakling.
I would say, as a guy neither have I…
But there was this one time when I was 7 I was throwing a tantrum, and I bashed my head into the wall so hard I punched a hole in it
So, I guess, guilty as charged?
Have started to call it straight boy cutting
Source: depression manifests as anger towards self
