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The single best thing people can do to end tipping culture is to just stop tipping.
Vote for social safety nets or make donations to care for those who will be harmed by this.
But right now it’s people like you that are perpetuating tipping culture.
And yes, I am an asshole - but it’s not solely because of my stance on tipping.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tony_Abbott_onion_video
It was beautiful. Absolutely beautiful.
asret@lemmy.zipto Technology•Unshittification: 3 tech companies that recently made my life… betterEnglish3·4 months agoSo one of his examples is that he bought stolen goods and when they were returned to the original owner he felt he deserved them as well? If he didn’t submit a charge back he’s complicit in supporting this fraud. The vendor should have offered to sell him a copy for the price he paid to the scammer instead.
I think port forwarding is more important for seeding when it comes to torrents. Someone has to be able to initiate the connection.
asret@lemmy.zipto Selfhosted•Jellyfin is not just good... but *better* than Plex now?!English2·5 months agoI tried Jellyfin out on my most recent build - don’t think it’s quite as good as Plex so far. Still using it though - I think either is perfectly fine for a simple home media server.
asret@lemmy.zipto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Why do males complain about female-led stories or too many female characters when the majority are still dominated by males?1·5 months agoProbably. As others have said here no one seems bothered by female leads in good stories - but the focus on gender when it’s a bad story is probably sexist.
I’m likely guilty of this myself, grumbling about “woke nonsense” and blaming the ideological messaging for the bad writing rather than just the bad writers.
It’s not all doom and gloom though - check out this list of books. Lots of highly rated entries there with female protagonists - many of which are targeted at a broad audience, not just women.
asret@lemmy.zipto Ye Power Trippin' Bastards@lemmy.dbzer0.com•This a new one: Banned for abbreviating New York Times to NYT in a comment.111·5 months agoYeah, I’m okay with discouraging abbreviations. But a blanket ban is silly.
Comments on a post about a New York Times article regarding the United States should probably be fine to use NYT & US.
Comments talking about the best computer role playing game going on and on about PoE2 deserve a ban however.
asret@lemmy.zipto Canada@lemmy.ca•Canada OKs ‘Massive’ $20 Billion Loan for Trans-Mountain Pipeline.2·5 months agoGood luck getting getting them to pay for a trans operation.
asret@lemmy.zipto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What's something that's taken for granted that occasionally makes you think, wait wtf?3·6 months agoIsn’t it still a straight line from the perspective of someone travelling it? It just appears curved because you’re looking at it from outside the curved surface.
asret@lemmy.zipto politics •Nancy Mace repeatedly shouts anti-trans slur in House hearing: 'I don't really care‘21·6 months agoCool. Not at all what I was arguing - too hard to see from up on your high horse?
asret@lemmy.zipto Steam Deck@sopuli.xyz•My SO got a steamdeck today, and it's a lot better than I imagined it to be3·6 months agoI was hugely impressed by how well Caves of Qud handles controller support. Definitely worth a look if you’re interested in how these types of games can maintain access to so many different functions.
asret@lemmy.zipto politics •Nancy Mace repeatedly shouts anti-trans slur in House hearing: 'I don't really care‘31·6 months agoSpeaking as someone who has been subjected to slurs and violence for who and what I am - why should simple exposure to slurs be where we draw the line? For me it was almost always about the hatred behind them; discussions about someone else’s hate for me are going to hit the same whether the words are printed or not.
I don’t think the word should have been censored here - either print it or drop the quote.
Nor do I think a report critical of someone using slurs is normalizing the use of them by quoting them. This isn’t the casual use of slurs in everyday language as a synonym for bad.
Servers make the same federal minimum everyone else does, their employer just gets to claim ~$5.50 an hour from tips in order to pay it. More in states with a higher minimum.
If no one tips the employer has to pay the full minimum wage themselves, not just $2.
I don’t understand how this is any different to just not tipping? Both situations lead to the worker needing to look for another job, right?
This is just wrong. If tips stopped tomorrow you’d still get whatever your state minimum wage is (or at least the $7.50 federal minimum).
The standard federal minimum wage still applies. If tips aren’t enough to get you there then the employer has to make up the difference.
Tips are literally a subsidy paid to your employer so that they don’t have to pay you (just the $2.13 federal tipped minimum wage).
Your advice would require people to drastically change their lives right now. Everything’s tipped.
Telling people to stop tipping requires almost nothing from them.
And yes, it will make things worse for the exploited workers - they’ll have to find new jobs if they’re not happy with their agreed-upon remuneration. But it’s this that will convince the employer to pay more - if they can’t attract staff they’ll have to offer more
Stopping tipping also puts the burden where it should be. You are the one saying your pay isn’t enough (and thus need tipping) - you fight for it yourself.
It’s so much nicer travelling in places where service workers are valued by their employers.
I still support the anti-tipping people though - it’s the single best option they have to effect change. It’s something small, concrete, and moves things to the desired end-state.
Stop tipping and donate the amount to community organizations fighting poverty instead.
Given our stance it’s probably for the best this time.