There’s quite a few different forms of aromantic and asexual identities. All of them have a lack of sexual or romantic desire on some level. Cupioromantic is someone who desires a romantic relationship but doesn’t experience romantic feelings. A demiromantic only experiences romantic attraction after forming an emotional bond.

Trying to define “romantic feelings” is kind of difficult, because it differs for everyone. I would probably say you have an aversion to sexual intimacy, and that can include deep kissing.

Here’s list I stole off the internet of types of love. It might help you narrow down your feelings

7 Types of Love

• Friendship: Intimacy without passion or commitment

• Infatuation: Passion without intimacy or commitment

• Empty love: Commitment without passion or intimacy

• Romantic love: Passion and intimacy without commitment

• Companionate love: Intimacy and commitment without passion/sexual desire; this could also be called “platonic” love

• Fatuous love: Commitment and passion without intimacy

• Consummate love: Commitment, passion, and intimacy

I’m similar. I would get into it every so often, but it usually just felt like a chore.

I would say let her know how you feel and if it doesn’t work out, just try to find someone who feels the same.

Hard to give substantial advice when it’s not a lot of information you gave. I’m not saying you should give more, better keep it safe online.

Generally I think it’s a good idea to not try to hard to put a label on yourself. In the end it’s not that important if you’re ace or something else but that you’re comfortable with yourself.

Also, I think keeping your gf in the loop regarding your wants, needs ad feelings towards her is pretty important. Communication is key.

i tend to feel similar

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