• Fredselfish
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    1 month ago

    Be sad and funny if he forgot he was getting paid to lose and kicks yoiur ass instead. Hate to judge but he doesn’t look that trustworthy. There is also the possibility that instead of looking like a badass your girlfriend is appaled at your beating the shit out of some guy just laying there taking it. I mean does he fight back or stand there while you beat on him?

    The fact is a real man don’t have to kick someone ass to be a man. In all my relationships I had never had to prove myself in a fight to keep said girl.

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      1 month ago

      Excellent, you made almost every point I wanted to, except: if I’m in a relationship I want it to be with someone who loves me, not whom I pretend to be.

      • thisisnotausername@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        • do you really wanna be with some one who is impressed by you reacting violently?

        This is actually a discussion I have had with some of my exes. I don’t think any of them said that they’d find it good. And, knowing them, I am pretty sure they’d see it as a red flag, as they shoud.

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          1 month ago

          C’mon bro, we all know only alpha males can get girls.

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          1 month ago

          I certainly would not, personally. Perhaps if violence were in my nature, but it’s not, so I don’t want anyone encouraging it.

    • Sc00ter@lemmy.zip
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      In my experiences, they want you to stand up for them, but stop short of violence. Defend them, but dont escalate. If the offender escalates, disengage and gtfo.