The local Albertan, rediscovering what it means to be me. May play devil’s advocate at times, as I like being nuanced.

Enjoys electronic music, adorable art, rhythm games, and perogies among other things.

I have lemmy.world and piefed.world blocked. Sorry, too much American politics and an unfortunate amount of casual transphobia for my liking. Feels like talking to a brick wall with people and I can’t be bothered anymore.

Also have lemmy.ml blocked for transphobia and gross dismissal of human rights issues in China by the admins.

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  • Binzy_Boi@piefed.cato196@lemmy.blahaj.zonepeetah
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    17 hours ago

    YOU DON’T UNDERSTAND. What if I want us to do things sideways, frontwards, backwards, upside down, 360 degrees, in the living room, in the bedroom, on the ceiling, in the closet, on the fridge, in the car in our Disneyland resort hotel?


















  • Women in games is not political. Accurate depictions of history are not political. Queer people being happy is not political.

    Just because right-wingers say they are doesn’t make that true. By stating that they are because they claim them to be, you give into them and find yourself playing a game in which the rules are dictated by them and what plays into their advantage.

    That’s how we got here with trans rights to begin with. They were not political, and they still aren’t, but because some freaks with nothing better to do with their lives than complain about others decided to say that trans rights were political, and because some people decided to follow that up with “debates” rather than outright saying “this is not political”, trans rights have been eroded to the point where “left wing” politicians like Gavin Newsom are now seen in good light despite anti-trans policies.

    Also “there’s no politics in sports”. You are right, but if you’re going to work on that same pattern of logic, there’s literally a huge nothing burger over the Super Bowl halftime show right now that people are pretending is political. Like congrats, by following Republicans in saying this is now a political issue, you’re basically just allowing them to say “see, they’re confirming it’s political, therefore let’s get rid of rights for Puerto Ricans” or something along the lines.


  • Binzy_Boi@piefed.cato196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneI'm tired of ruling so much
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    5 days ago

    Maybe don’t blame the people that follow a healthy amount and decided to do something when the election date came rolling around. Just a reminder, 80 million didn’t care enough to vote, and higher turnout just about always works against Republicans.

    “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.” When making the vast majority of a platform political content doesn’t work, you don’t solve that by doing it even more. Wanting to pull away from politics to improve one’s mental health shouldn’t be seen as criminal, but maybe when people see so much of it that it affects their mental well-being, they get turned away from caring entirely (which is not my case for the record).


  • Okay? I like politics too, but I don’t like it being literally everything I engage with. Sometimes I want a break, I know that’s hard to imagine for people that in order to be a good person and follow on stuff, that your online activity doesn’t have to be over 80% political content.

    This may seem wild to people, but maybe I engage with politics in a different manner like through commentators on videos and podcasts. I can curate my feed there to have an equal balance, it’s a lot harder to do here and have things still be worthwhile because it’s a smaller platform, and the majority of the time someone makes a new account and new communities, posts, or comments here, they decide to contribute politics and just about nothing else.

    Oh, and bonus points if it’s really low-quality stuff like this where it’s literally months behind with the news just to say “Trump bad”, where nothing of substance is added to the conversation.



  • Binzy_Boi@piefed.cato196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneI'm tired of ruling so much
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    Ah yes, the two sides of existence where there’s zero middle ground:

    Being someone who follows nothing because I don’t care enough to follow stuff

    or

    Duct-taping my eyes to the screen as I scroll through every single thing on the internet about every minute little detail that happens in politics to the point where it’s my entire identity.

    Clearly no middle ground possible here, no-siree, but let’s just pretend that Lemmy doesn’t have a problem with user growth because people get turned away because it’s 90% political content on the major feeds and nothing else.


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    5 days ago

    “Man, Reddit sucks, you know what Lemmy needs? More politics!”

    I’m sick of seeing this guys face and reading his name anywhere and everywhere, but hey, continuing to never shut up about him “spreads awareness” or whatever the hell, therefore I need to have him plastered everywhere 24/7 as if people don’t have anything else to focus on like what makes them enjoy themselves as a brief getaway from this crap.

    Also adding I’ve blocked a number of terms, communities, and an entire instance in part for this, and it still gets through like this. It’s not a hard ask to be able to get away from it.




  • Oh! Sorry, I didn’t see this post initially, I just changed my settings to show NSFW posts with blurred thumbnails since something I posted disappeared after posting, and this only showed up for me after the fact.

    There are dating apps specific to people on the asexual spectrum if that at all helps, acespace comes to mind, which may help you find people that are more on the same page as you. I wish I personally had more to offer beyond that, but play partners are a concept I’m not the most familiar with admittedly.











  • Binzy_Boi@piefed.catoFemcel Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zoneits that shrimple~
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    11 days ago

    …because it’s happened to me before?

    Had an ex in junior high tell friends and others that I tried forcing myself onto her after I didn’t feel comfortable getting intimate with her like that when visiting her place for Christmas, which was her cheap excuse to justify to them why she cheated on me.

    The exact opposite was the case where she threatened to blackmail me if I didn’t do something, which she then did anyway. Didn’t realise I was on the ace spectrum until years later.

    You don’t solve the issues you face by diminishing those of others.