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Cake day: July 1st, 2023

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  • dohpaz42toNewsMegathread: Charlie Kirk Shot at Utah Valley University Event
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    2 days ago

    This is tragic, but not for the obvious reasons. Despite him being a hateful man who added nothing of value to this world, his death will do the same. ITT there are a lot of people who Kirk has negatively impacted. While I don’t blame anybody for how they feel, no one should be cheering or dancing about somebody’s death. But here we are.

    What concerns me most is that his death will not make things better for anybody. If anything, I worry that it’ll make things much worse. Those people who followed Kirk will now feel more emboldened in their ideology, and view Kirk as a martyr. Trump and his ilk will probably lash out with more bullshit EOs or enforcement of their illegal policing of innocent people.

    Celebrate while you can, as we certainly live in interesting times.



  • dohpaz42tomemesThey will be terminated for sure
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    3 days ago

    Another primo example of American exceptionalism someone speaking from their personal experiences.

    Thank you for educating me about how other places in the world work. But I will not let you shame me for not magically knowing everything about how other cultures work.








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    4 days ago

    Say what you will about Go Dog Go, but I absolutely love the open and honest exchange between these two. No one got hurt, and no one was rude. And at the end of the day, everybody was better for it.



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    In case you in fact do not know how to write a resignation letter, let me help demonstrate using a standard way, and a fancy way:

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    I quit.

    fancy

    Dear <Manager Name>,

    I quit.

    Sincerely,

    <Your Name>

    ~It should be noted that <Manager Name> and <Your Name> are placeholders that you would replace with the name of your manager and the name they put on your paycheck under “Pay to the order of” field, respectively.~


  • It’s quite possible these men have reached the Nirvana of being thick-skinned. If so, we all should be in awe, as that is a rare thing to achieve. It also could be that men are not allowed to show emotion, and would otherwise be condemned if they complained or didn’t “take it like a man”; especially being around a lot of women where they feel even more pressured to show up and be a man.







  • It’s kind of like when you get a sunburn, and someone comes up and gives you a slap right on the sunburn. Maybe they meant to, or maybe they didn’t. Either way, it’s going to hurt like hell until your sunburn heals.

    One of the many things I’ve learned in my two years of therapy is that we carry our pain and trauma around like a big old sunburn, and more often than not we get slapped by other people not realizing we’re hurting already.

    I wish you the best on your journey of healing. It’s never easy, and you’ll often find yourself relapsing. But don’t give up on yourself.