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heydamianc@thelemmy.clubto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Why do many Americans seem to racially stereotype other Americans solely based on their appearance?5·2 months agoOur parents and grandparents grew up in times of segregation. Laws banning interracial marriage were abolished in 1967. It, unfortunately, takes time to collectively change our mind.
And actually, now that I think about it, I don’t ever remember seeing interracial dating represented on television in the US until the last decade or so.
They put you in fight or flight mode
heydamianc@thelemmy.clubto No Stupid Questions•What is the best place to search for actual news about a keyword and get results that are actually timely and date order descending?4·2 months agoKagi is a search engine, but it has ways to narrow the search. One of these is “news” and it works quite well. I saw a Lemmy post about scientists tattooing a tardigrade so I went to see if I could find relevant results. I found multiple news articles confirming it. Kagi is a paid service, but it may work for your use case.
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heydamianc@thelemmy.clubOPtoPersonal Finance@lemmy.ml•How do you budget as a couple?English2·2 months agoWere y’all pretty transparent? This seems difficult to pull off without transparency, at least for shared expenses.
I have a friend who handles finances like this with her husband and they are NOT transparent which is both surprised to me because they somehow make it work and because it seems to put it on hard mode.
heydamianc@thelemmy.clubOPtoPersonal Finance@lemmy.ml•How do you budget as a couple?English2·2 months agoSince you’re more knowledgeable, does your partner try to cat h up. Or are they more hands off and just trust your decisions?
Or rooms are reversed where my wife is more knowledgeable, but it’s a regular discussion for us. And with the regularity, I’m catching up.
heydamianc@thelemmy.clubOPtoPersonal Finance@lemmy.ml•How do you budget as a couple?English2·2 months agoThis is pretty much how we do it too. The part about yours/mine was key for us to start because we had a shared goal of saving more than we spend.
As a matter of fact, thinking back to it now, we actually started budgeting together even before we were married and before having a joint account. We would pay for things in the ratio of our respective incomes and everything was fair based on the structure we agreed upon.
I think the underlying premise of a lot of these answers (all?) Is transparency and thoughtfulness. I can’t see budgeting together working without that.
heydamianc@thelemmy.clubOPto Privacy@lemmy.ml•Safe and private way to share location with family2·2 months agoThis looks to be exactly what I was imagining. Thanks for the suggestion!
heydamianc@thelemmy.clubOPto Privacy@lemmy.ml•Safe and private way to share location with family3·2 months agoI was hoping to find something more specific by posting here.
We drive across some pretty remote places, sometimes alone, so it would be more helpful to have a solution that periodically pings (hopefully automatically) and somehow shares with selected individuals.
heydamianc@thelemmy.clubOPto Privacy@lemmy.ml•Safe and private way to share location with family2·2 months agoGood question since I didn’t specify. I would prefer periodic tracking at some configurable interval, but I actually really appreciate all the answers because to be honest I had not even considered things like sending my location in Signal or the other one shot approaches.
heydamianc@thelemmy.clubto Ask Lemmy•How many fediverse instances have you signed up for?21·3 months agoOur GF Nicole
heydamianc@thelemmy.clubto Ask Lemmy•Is it wrong to put your career first and push getting into a relationship further later?4·3 months agoThere once was a one-winged butterfly, Who spent their life chasing their dreams, In a circle
heydamianc@thelemmy.clubto Ask Lemmy•Is it wrong to put your career first and push getting into a relationship further later?3·3 months agoWeird I don’t know why, but my account was flagged as a bot. I’m a real life person though.
heydamianc@thelemmy.clubto Ask Lemmy•Is it wrong to put your career first and push getting into a relationship further later?3·3 months agoAre you opting out of the system? I bet you have qualities someone wishes they could find.
heydamianc@thelemmy.clubto Ask Lemmy•Is there an evolutionary advantage associated with armpit sweating and stinking?2·4 months ago…evolved down the wrong path, almost as if its devolution
I like Maple Mono https://github.com/subframe7536/maple-font
Awk’s awesome. Thanks for reminding me of this fact. Because for me it was a nice walk down memory lane for a time when I used it to create an Objective-C formatter back in the day. I really appreciated your examples. I .ight just rekindle my old awk flame.