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  • Okay, someone please help me understand as I genuinely want to.

    I fully understand gender neutral (I am bringing up my own children to not restrict their behaviour and personalities due to gender norms because of the the sex they were assigned at birth), I understand being born ‘male’ but feeling more like the societal definition of a ‘girl’ in terms of both physical and social characteristics. I understand the difference between sex and gender.

    I understand and believe that our body is our own and if somebody wants to change their body they should be able to do so as they see fit, including changing it to meet the societal norms in terms of appearance of another sex.

    But here is what I don’t fully grasp (but would like to) - why is it wrong to say that those born with a biologically male body should go to the male ward in a hospital? Isn’t that where they would receive the best treatment for themselves? Aren’t gender pronouns useful when distinguishing between biological differences in the medical field?

    I don’t mean any offense to anybody with these questions. I fully support everyone’s right to identify as anywhere on the spectrum of the social construct of gender. Also, if there is a more suitable community for me to ask these questions in, please do share it.








  • m0nky@lemmy.dbzer0.comtoSelfhostedMy server is slow when i'm in Korea
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    2 years ago

    Okay, so I have actually lived in Korea for 15 years, and am into self hosting, servers for media, etc.

    What I can tell you is, you are fucked. Peering to anywhere other than Japan is a nightmare.

    Give up and build your own server in your own home. No amount of peering tricks or CDNs will help you.

    The best you’ll get in terms of connections to major service providers is hosting in Dallas, which should get you around 100mbps.