I hope you’re doing okay. It sounds like he didn’t have your best interests in mind and that he seemed to change his mind a lot, like one minute he would say he loved you and the next, he never cared. I’m glad you don’t have to deal with his toxicity anymore. Don’t feel bad about breaking up, it’s always hard when you just have broken up but it sounds like it was for the best 🫂

Same for me, OSDD here with one known alter, at least one main one

Exatamente! A língua portuguesa pode ser estranha né?

Not quite. I have a separate account for Mark, but he’s an alter rather than a persona.

I think he doesn’t love you, not really. He just doesn’t wanna be alone.

It sounds like a roundabout way of saying he wants out. “I don’t wanna hurt you by breaking up with you but I want out.” Also, saying you wear him out means he’s calling you exhausting.

From my experience with a friend, this usually means they’re tired of you, don’t feel like talking, or just a mean person who doesn’t like you and is gonna ditch you. Hopefully, it’s the second. He also could be depressed.

Imagine hating your gf’s favorite TV show. My girlfriend never says she hates my shows even if she doesn’t watch them.

Damn dude 😭 Feels blunt, I hope she forgave you.

Thank you ❤️

I agree with the other comments. Sometimes, people are more inclined to want to fix things like you, while your girlfriend just wants to talk. I saw you said you would try this, which is good, but try empathizing with her and just listening to what she has to say. “I’m so sorry, that sounds horrible!” would even work.