Not really. With medications and nerves I’ve run the gamut from premature to fully unable to finish, and this is not something I usually have trouble with. Maybe its because I am in a BDSM couple and often my focus is already split between the physical sensations and the work needed to make a scene good for my partner. Sex is engaging enough I generally get hyperfocused rather than having intrusive chore thoughts.
Danbooru is actually what I had in mind starting the thread. Its tag system is so good!
In the recommendations we trust 🙏
You’re right that can be more fun, depending on the site.
Every tag system eventually encounters that most dastardly of creatures: the user
You’re definitely right. I am into Stag Vixen and Swinging and it feels like Stag Vixen is just the new Hotwife because people who like humiliation/cheating/cuckholding took over the Hotwife tag on every site
Yeah depending where I am I also have to -scat etc.
My partner and I are also switches! The fridge magnet is such a good idea. I love that because checking it would probably get me excited hahaha
That’s a fun way to do it. We’ve done that way a fair bit as well, but I like to have inspiration sometimes 😅
Interesting, I never would have guessed that would work well. Probably needs to be replaced pretty often to remain sanitary though.
Have a variant of this from exotic erotics. It has a suction base which has let me stick it to the shower wall to dry off and even to the ceiling of the bathroom once as a gag
You’ll definitely get some attention 😍
Good point. Even if the swing would be better, its not something everyone can or should have depending on their home
Woof! Happy to have you here. I hope you enjoy being here as much as your presence will enrich this space for others 😊
Absolutely! Some people have so much of an easier time with vibration than just manual stimulation. Restraints are definitely fun too, whether it be rope or cuffs
That’s a good recommendation. Do you have a sex swing as well? Would you recommend the pillow over that?
You are so right about the remote control eggs! Those can be so much fun!
Ulterior motives detected! 😂
Can’t quite tell the from the OP if you mean kinks you are embarrassed to have or if you mean kinks about embarrassment. To the first, I have a couple kinks that I don’t really discuss outside my partner that we have specific toys for. The second not so much, I guess I have a bit of an exhibitionism kink. Being stumbled on naked, but having the person be attracted not disturbed. Pretty basic I suppose, but not something I would ever intentionally pursue.
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